For every story there is 2 sides - I am aware of this ... BUT, what an exceptional young man!!!! Well done for NEVER lifting your hand back.
This girl needs to be taught a lesson, this boy knows he is not the one to do it. Points to him for not hitting back!! I hope her parents see this and deal with her accordingly !!
I would be livid and would not rest until i saw justice for my child! But there's 1 thing i always hear about bullies... that it's an emotional backlash for something bad happening in their lives... so i definitely would ensure the child gets professional help for his/ hers anger problem... but then again i also believe that some bullies are mean simply because they can be!
If my son came home telling me he never raised his hand back, I would be furious but extremely proud of him. Takes allot of self restraint for someone to take a beating like that especially in front of friends and still keep calm. His parents should be proud of him. I on the other hand would lose my S#@# as a parent.
It makes me so angry seeing all those people on the side just watching... They should stand together and help that bullied boy... I was bullied as a kid and what I would have done for some help rather then an audience... That girl needs to be severely dealt with...
Due to the fact that girls/women want to be treated equally, it stands to reason why many think it's okay for them to hit boys / men. What they don't take into account is that "equal" works both ways, and yet they very quickly cry 'victim' when there is any sort of physical retaliation by a boy/man who dares defend themselves from this kind of physical abuse. It's a very dangerous thought process to have, because one day girls like this, are going to come across a man who won't hold back, and due to the strength difference may do unimaginable damage. I applaud that young man for his restraint when faced with that horrible girl. He has clearly been brought up well. As for her.... she needs help, and fast!
Wow, that is absolutely the most disgusting behaviour I have ever seen ... and what's more, it's coming from a young "lady". I do say well done to the young lad for not retaliating but someone must take this girl to hand. What are we supposed to think of her parents????? Do they know how their daughter is actually behaving or is it "allowed" behaviour in their home???? This HORRIBLE YOUNG GIRL should be sent to a reformatory - sorry and maybe she will be taught a "thing or two" there and what's more, how to act like a civilised human being ..... which she most DEFINITELY is not!!!!!!!
I cant even breathe after watching this, anyway, if this was my child i definitely would be livid to say the least, but we cannot fight fire with fire, we have to encourage our kids to be better than what they encounter out there, and a diversity in behaviour they do, imagine if he hit back, he would also be a statistic right adding to bullying, so good on you son for not hitting back because if you know that she will be accountable for her actions some day you will just be the gentleman you are and leave her to her own dimise.
I talk from experience when it come to bullying, my daughter was fiercely bullied in Grade 5 & 6 by the same girl and after numerous letters and phone calls to the school did they finally have a meeting with lawyers and both girls on separate occasions and concluded that bullying girl had seriously sad issues at home. I have inculcated manners and dencency into my children and I applaud this young man for not retaliating against the young girl. She clearly has abuse or insecurity issues at home and needs counselling.
If I was his parent. I would be very angry that someone did this to him but on the other hand I would be very proud to call him my son. As for that girl....if it was my daughter I would hang my head in shame. What disgusting behaviour. I would make her publicly apologise to him and cut of all luxury for a year.